Regarding your temperatures, 210°F on a long grade while pulling 12k lbs is getting into the "danger zone" for a stock 68RFE. While modern synthetic fluids can handle it briefly, these transmissions generally prefer to stay under 190°F. If you consistently see 210°F+, your fluid is breaking down and losing its lubricating properties, which accelerates clutch wear. HOW much heat is too much? If you hit 230°F, pull over immediately. I’d highly recommend an aftermarket thermal bypass valve (TBV) delete; it’s a cheap mod that helps the trans cooler actually do its job sooner.